http://www.personalitydesk.com/istp
ESTJs take their parenting responsibilities seriously, and enjoy the roles and duties which they are consequently presented with. The ESTJ sees parenthood as a natural state, and welcomes the opportunity to fulfill their basic obligation to pass on their genes, and to raise children to be responsible, independent adults.
ESTJs usually expect that parents should be parents, and children should be children. There is likely to be that parent-child barrier between the ESTJ and their kids, and they are likely to expect that their children will treat them with respect and honor. They will have no patience for extreme deviation from this basic rule.
ESTJs also do not have much tolerance for inefficiency or messiness. They dislike to see mistakes repeated. Consequently, ESTJ parents may have a difficult time with their children who have Intuitive or Perceiving preferences. They are extremely practical, and have no understanding or value for the creative imaginations of highly Intuitive children. They will also have little patience with the unstructured, "go with the flow" attitude of their Perceiving children. This impatience with other types is a potential downfall for the ESTJ which may manifest itself in an ugly way if the rift occurs with their own children. The ESTJ should remember that what is right for them is not necessarily right for their children.
Whatever difficulties an ESTJ may experience with their child, they will always accept that child back as their own. They are strongly driven to fulfill their duties, and see parenting as one of these "must do" obligations.
Children of the ESTJ will usually remember them as dependable, reliable, strict, traditional, and always willing to sacrifice themself for the sake of their children.
http://www.16personalities.com/being-friends-with-an-istp:
ISTP friends are usually very well-rounded and interesting, living in the present and enjoying whatever life brings to them. Their key phrase is “everything can be changed”. A friendship with an ISTP is like a rollercoaster – it can be really exciting and fulfilling one day, and a complete opposite the following day. ISTP personalities do not like to commit, seeing their relationships as something that can change every day.
ISTPs rarely have any problems making friends – they enjoy pursuing many different hobbies and are consequently able to come up with exciting things to do. Shared activities form the basis of ISTP friendships – as people with this personality type have excellent control of all five senses and enjoy competing with others, the easiest way to become an ISTP’s friend is to find a common (ideally physical) hobby. ISTPs are thoughtful and rational individuals, but having deep philosophical discussions with friends is not their idea of fun.
Naturally, ISTP personalities tend to gravitate towards friends who have a strong S trait as they are most likely to enjoy experiencing things first-hand. Intuitive (N) types, on the other hand, may make the ISTP somewhat uncomfortable as ISTPs often have trouble understanding their abstract ideas. However, if the friendship mostly revolves around a shared hobby, the ISTP will have no difficulties accepting someone with a vastly different world view. Generally, ISTP friends are quite open-minded and relaxed, and it is no surprise that they tend to be well-liked by many different personality types.
http://www.dunning.ca/blog/mistyping-is-your-natural-preference-thinking-or-feeling/http://cppeducation.blogspot.com/2011/12/finding-that-perfect-gift.html
http://www.dunning.ca/category/personality-type-2/whats-your-type/
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